Ever want to only update your friends with a wall post? Would you like to exclude our boss from seeing your status? Well this guide will show you how to pull this off so your co-workers won’t know you are a party animal and you’re ex-girlfriend won’t see that you are still heartbroken :).
Here are some possible reasons to use privacy on your posts:
- Keep your work & industry related posts from your friends.
- Block specific users (or lists of users) from ever seeing a post. This can be great when looking to block competitive companies or workers from seeing your posts.
- Deliver more targeted messaging to your segmented groups of friends. You could write a social media oriented wall post and send to a social media list, and dial the copy down when just posting to a general internet marketing list. Having targeted posts can help boost click-throughs by increasing relevancy.
- Block personal posts (and content) from co-workers and other colleagues in your industry
How to Apply Privacy To Your Wall Posts
The key to targeting your wall posts/information is to segment your friends list. By creating detailed lists of your friends, you will have the ability to block specific lists, or show posts to specific people. Here’s how:
Click on the “Friends” link in the left column:

Next, you want to create a list. This list will be how exactly you will segment your friends (and display information).

Making them relevant (high school friends, college friends, co-workers, etc) will help you target your messaging. My personal lists are:
- Friends
- Not Really Friends (you know those people that add you but you haven’t talked to in 10 years)
- Industry

This is what a sample list would look like when completed:

Now that you have your lists set up, you can start segmenting your wall posts away! Let’s look at an example of a wall post for an update that I might want some people in my industry(and my bosses) to see:

Now that I have the blog post typed up, I would click on the “Customize” button. This would then take me to the following screen where I can choose who can and cannot see the post:

With this update, none of my friends will see the message … only the people that are on my “Industry” list will see this.
Now, if I wanted to show my friends what I am realllyy doing (while blocking from people in my industry,) I would do the following:

I blocked all of my “not really friends” along with “industry” as well as my boss “Chris Winfield” (he is listed as a friend, not an Industry person) so only my real friends can see what it is that I am doing.
So that is how you can make wall posts that are custom tailored to your audience!
Here are a few key tips to remember:
- Make your lists segmented how you would like to deliver your posts (work, recreation, school, etc)
- You can also block (or add) specific people to a post
- Be careful with your default settings – if you accidentally set this, you could exclude a section of friends from seeing any updates
How to Apply These Settings To Other Facebook Info
Now, while we are on the subject, lets talk about how to block other information from specific people – again, those targeted lists will be a huge help!
Firstly, click on the “Privacy Settings” link underneath the “Account” dropdown in the upper right:

Next, you need to select what you would like to restrict the privacy of. For this exercise, we will restrict the privacy of a photo gallery, so we would click on “Profile Information”:

Now, the next thing to do is to select which section should be changed. Figure out what you would like to change, then click on the customize button:
I ended up choosing “Photo Albums” section and was able to customize the privacy on an album-by-album basis. Just like wall posts, you can customize specific elements by lists and/or by person. Do do this, you just need to show the section to “Some Friends.” Then you can choose which friends will see it based on the list or profile of that person. Here is an example of what I might choose for one of my albums:
This would show the specific album to anyone that I have listed (because I selected all of my lists) but will not show the album to anyone who I haven’t added to a list yet. This can be done with all of your personal information (age, interests, videos, etc) so organize yourself today to make sure that the wrong people are seeing your private information.
Setting up these lists and privacy settings is simple, and can save you a good deal of grief if you are a Facebook fanatic. So create segmented lists and ensure you deliver specific messages & information to the correct people!

Ummm, I'm pretty sure you're my boss Greg :P
Thanks for sharing your FB insight. Most times when I go private I simply DM, but I also work for myself so no boss over the shoulder.
Thanks for writing all this up and illustrating it so well! From now on when people ask me to explain privacy settings, I'm just going to direct them to your post. You just simplified my life. Thank you!
You're welcome Morgan! Thanks for the nice words :)
Great post, Greg, but one quick question: I was doing this for a while, but then realized all of my friends could see which lists they were on, so the one co-worker I wanted to keep things from could see he was on a list all by his lonesome. Is that still the case?
@Michael – They shouldn't be able to see exactly which list they are on. However, they might just see a severe lack of wall posts (while others would be seeing the posts). One thing that you can do to combat this is to change the "Posts by Me" section in your "Privacy Settings" and simply disallowing them to see anything at all that you post!
Thanks Greg,
One query…by mistake i created duplicate list of "Not my friends"..i wanna delete it but there is no option there in FB…pls help
@Hyder, Click on "Account" in the upper right, then drag the drop down to "Edit Friends." Do a quick search for the list you want to delete, then just hit "Delete List"
I can't understand the necessity of wall posts if they can be made private. Wall posts can be viewed by all the members who visit a certain page, can't they…
Helpful post! Thanks for including images with detailed explanations as well. Social media is becoming a bigger part in everyone's life every single day. I think privacy is something that everyone should be thinking about nowadays. So many people ask me how to do this or that in terms of privacy on Facebook, but your guide does it all. Great post! Keep em coming!
this is great! i've been using friends lists similarly for a while now. i'll make sure NOT to forward this to my co-worker who recently deleted me from his friends altogether after i mentioned something about his many mafia war updates i saw throughout the workday! oh yeah, and i'll not forward it to my boss either. :-)
Greg, you rock! I've been waiting and looking for someone to post an easy to use guide on the new privacy features of facebook. You bet I will be sharing this with my network!
Cheers,
Egbert
So how do I hide facebook constantly showing who’s status I have liked and commented on etc… I dont want everyone seeing EVERYthing i do…
Also this ‘stalker’ app, is there any truth to it??
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I can't understand the sense of making wall posts private – if they are wall – they are for all!
Thanks for working hours on this informative post, but there is no POINT when FACEBook can change whenever they want, whatever they want, so fustrated with them, now all my activities are posted with NO control whatsever!!!!!!
Hi
Does anyone know how to get your homepage on facebook to default to info and not the wall?
Thanks
Ian
i have a question, i have a list for farmville friends and a list for other friends, i would like to see the farmville posts but only when i click on that list, ie is there a way to keep the two lists completely separated
cheers
i write on a friend's wall… i do not want my other friends to see what i wrote on my friend's wall… is there a way to keep the post from appearing on the HOME page in the News Feeds where everyone can read it (like when we could on the old facebook)?
I've been searching to find the answer to this also. In fact, that's how I found this article! No answer yet, but great information here.
Yeah, I’ve been looking for a way to block that too and can’t find anything. Pretty frustrating.
Yes same question here – how do keep what you are writing on someone else's wall from appearing on News Feed. There used to be a setting for this……
Was there an answer to the 2-3 requests about making Wall posts private so that the whole world doesn’t see them??
Nik says:
March 19, 2010 at 1:33 am
i write on a friend’s wall… i do not want my other friends to see what i wrote on my friend’s wall… is there a way to keep the post from appearing on the HOME page in the News Feeds where everyone can read it (like when we could on the old facebook)?
Seriously lets get this wall to wall question answered
Hi, I would like to know – Is it possible to block my own wall posts & friend’s posts yet still have my wall visible to ALL my friends? I have seen some users with only just a few lines of info on their wall (recent friend request accepts etc) then a tag line that says – ‘NO FURTHER POSTS’
Sometimes (just to be polite) I feel obligated to accept friend requests – my neighbours little daughter or very conservative family friend etc – BUT I don’t want these people to be privy to what goes on in my day to day private life YET I still want them to have access to my wall so they can interact with me if they want to post on my wall & to also not offend them by entirely blocking my wall. I have played around with privacy settings to try work out a way but when I block my posts & friends posts to certain friend lists – they then have no access to my wall…
Thankyou!
how can i set my fb account so when i leave a message on sone elses wall that it doesnt show up on the news feed for everyone to see that i left i message? i dont care if they go to the persons wall and read what i left i just dont want it to show up on the news feed for everyone to see that i left a message there…. I use to have it set up where it didnt do that before fb changed last year but now i dont know how to change it…. please help….also how do u set your setting not to show in news feed when u comment on someones status ..example: Bill Quinton commented on Alan Boyle’s status.
This is funny. No matter how private you try to make your personal information, everything we do on Facebook ends up all over the web. Just Google your own name and watch where it takes you!
The only way to keep your info off the web is to stay off the web…
The best thing we can do on Facebook is to delete all personal info and photos.
I am also trying to figure out how to stop the newsfeed! I am fans of several pages, belong to groups, etc. and when I’m being in “fan mode” posting, uploading pics, I don’t need or want everyone else to see it! If they happen to be a fan or member of that group too, then that’s a different story, but they don’t have to get a newsfeed of those activities of mine!
I really liked that post.I will be reading a lot more of this blog.But I am a little confused, and have a tiny question. Can I send you an email?
WALL TO WALL SETTINGS!!!!!how can i set my fb account so when i leave a message on sone elses wall that it doesnt show up on the news feed for everyone to see that i left i message? i dont care if they go to the persons wall and read what i left i just dont want it to show up on the news feed for everyone to see that i left a message there…. I use to have it set up where it didnt do that before fb changed last year but now i dont know how to change it…. please help….also how do u set your setting not to show in news feed when u comment on someones status ..example: Bill Quinton commented on Alan Boyle’s status.
Has anyone gotten an answer about the WALL TO WALL settings? There’s nothing private about facebook any longer with this feature implemented. I want to be able to post to someone and not have someone who is NOT the postee’s friend be able to read it, never-the-less have it POSTED to THEIR wall that I was posting something! That is rediculous!
I can’t understand the sense of making wall posts private
So, I did a search about this and found this question and answer:
I’m able to view a story about a non-friend in my News Feed. why?
****News Feed will not display any stories that violate another user’s privacy settings. If you can see a story about a non-friend, it is likely because this user has set their privacy for that piece of content to “Everyone.”****
So, in other words, we have no control over it, only the postee has the control, we can only make sure to protect our posts from non-friends and hope our friends will do the same.
Hope this helps some of you… I know I’m going to be updating my friends and letting them know how to fix this as I’m sure many of them haven’t even realized it’s happening.
WALL TO WALL SETTINGS!!!!!how can i set my fb account so when i leave a message on sone elses wall that it doesnt show up on the news feed for everyone to see that i left i message? i dont care if they go to the persons wall and read what i left i just dont want it to show up on the news feed for everyone to see that i left a message there…. I use to have it set up where it didnt do that before fb changed last year but now i dont know how to change it…. please help….also how do u set your setting not to show in news feed when u comment on someones status ..example: Bill Quinton commented on Alan Boyle’s status